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Don’t be that man, woman, or couple that rushes into the world of group sex and does not think about the consequences. Taking your clothes off and hopping into bed is the easy part. But before you start swinging or cuckolding, know the risk. Understanding the risks you’re taking will separate the good times from the terrible(regrettable).
The risk you take when swinging and cuckolding
Though there are too many to name all of them in one post, I felt I should at least highlight the risks I’ve seen come full circle throughout my life. All risks don’t necessarily lead to the dreaded worst case scenario. But it has left some choking on humble pie. quora.com
Your partner goes further than you anticipated
Here’s an example: You and your partner plan on attending a swinger party. Your partner has been reluctant through the process; but willing to “watch” the first time you attend.
Fast forward to the night of the party, their reluctance fades and leads them into joining a couple for a threesome. You too find your own couple to have fun with but can’t help but notice your partner is growing more and more bold with the couple.
Time passes and you now see your partner is getting it on with a group of five. Clearly enjoying themselves, you don’t want to interrupt but you also never agreed to this level of fun. You find yourself in a bit of a predicament. It was you who talked them into it, now you’re going to criticize their level of participation.
It’s a risk you take.
Your partner starts enjoying it more than you do
What started off as a way to spice things up turned into your partners taste buds changing. Now they want it weekly or whenever possible. It hasn’t necessarily hurt your sex life, but you now find yourself accepting or denying their request to “have fun”.
If you agreed to a polyamorous relationship, your partner may begin to hang out with others more than you; leaving you a little left out. Regardless of if it is intentional or not, feeling left out of a sexual relationship that it’s supposed to be about you and your partner, sucks,
You may have intended for the swinging to be a sometime thing. But swing could have unleashed an animal that has laid dormant. That smoldering fire that finally got a good whiff of oxygen and now ready to burn down a forest. That same type of fire can scorch the world your relationship used to thrive in.
It’s a risk you take.
Post-nut clarity
You find the right person/couple/group of people; you have the perfect location and time; everyone shows up on time, clean, looking good and feeling the vibe. Everything goes as planned and even better than expected. You just had a mind blowing orgasm and you’re catching your breath.
Then, seemingly out of nowhere, a rush of regret fills your mind. You scan the room and realize everyone else is still in the moment. You on the other hand are experiencing the sudden urge to get dressed and leave. But you don’t say anything out of fear of being “that guy/gal that ruined a great night”.
But what can you do? You never had these feelings before. You don’t ever remember being the jealous type. You can’t recall a time you felt uncomfortable for the things you like sexually. How can you gauge a reaction you’ve never experienced?
You can’t.
It’s a risk you take.
How do I mitigate the risks?
That my friends is a conversation I’d like to have on another post.
Until then, I’d love to hear your thoughts.
